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Calvary Cemetery
Thursday December 17th, 2020
4:00pm - 6:00pm

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Alar Burkes

Alar M. Burkes (nee Card), age 57 of Lorain, passed away unexpectedly on December 11, 2020 at the Cleveland Clinic in Cleveland, Ohio.

Born November 28, 1963 to Charles and Mary (nee Fountain) Card, Alar spent her entire life in Lorain.  She graduated from Admiral King and went on to Lorain Community College where she received a degree in medical billing and coding. She also received a Medical Assistant degree from JVS.  Following college, she went on to work for Dr. Getachew’s office in Lorain for many years and also for Riddell in North Ridgeville.

She loved music, cooking, dancing, Chinese art and culture and B-rated movies.  Above all, she loved her family, spending time with her siblings and spoiling her grandchildren.

Surviving is her husband of over 30 years, Sean Burkes; children, Nate (Jaslyn) Burkes, Preston Burkes, Ceanna Burkes, Anastasia Burkes and Michael (Angelique) Burkes; grandchildren, Serena, Janiya, Natai, Jalin and Laylah as well as her siblings, Margaret, Sheila, James, Thomas, Milton, Gwen, Rose, Janette, Dorothy and Lavonne.

She was preceded in death by both of her parents as well as her brother, Freddie.

The family will receive friends on Thursday, December 17 from 4 – 6 p.m. to celebrate Alar’s life in the Dovin Funeral & Cremation Specialists, 2701 Elyria Avenue, Lorain.  Social distancing will be followed.


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Guestbook

she was a beautiful lady that i had the pleasure of knowing always smile and talk with me when we would see each other.
she was truly a joy to work at Riddell with her . she will be miss big time . r.i.p my dear friend my deepest sympathy goes out to her family . God has call you home r.i.p

GENEVIEVE Y HARRIS Dec 16 2020 12:00 AM

Alar was a wonderfully pleasant and spirited person. As I knew her, she met the challenges of life with determination and a smile. I will miss her.

May God be with each of you and supply all of your needs.

Audrey Fountain-Nelson Dec 16 2020 12:00 AM

Dear Burkes and Card Families,

Sorrow upon Sorrow! The grief is maddening. Our worst nightmare has become a reality in the mist of an unprecedented, deadly, pandemic of isolation.

Daddy Lannie, our grandfather, would probably encourage you by singing a favorite hymn, Come, Ye Disconsolate, by Samuel Webb:

Come, ye disconsolate, where-er ye languish;
Come to the mercy seat, fervently kneel;
Here bring your wounded hearts, here tell your anguish;
Earth has no sorrow but Heaven cannot heal.

His son, Uncle Jerry, would definitely sing, I Will Trust in the Lord, by J. Jefferson Cleveland. He would sing it to you slowly and repeatedly until you believed it too.

I will trust in the Lord, I will trust in the Lord,
I will trust in the Lord 'til I die,
I will trust in the Lord, I will trust in the Lord,
I will trust in the Lord 'til I die.

We have survived compound grief before as a family through God's grace and mercy. We will survive again by using the same effective strategy. Let's bind together again as a family and support each other on every leaning side. Our friends and community will help us through. Don't try to process through this pain alone. Reach out to someone during this season of Advent and draw on shared love, joy, hope, and peace.
Alar was a wonderful, happy, caring, and brilliant woman. She accomplished a great deal during her brief journey with us. She will be greatly missed! May our Savior's love and peace surround and guide each one of you until we meet again,


Aunt Lillie, Cousins Zenobia & Thalia

Zenobia A. Fountain Dec 16 2020 12:00 AM

Will truly miss you Alar! A truly genuine loveable person! I will always remember you...your beautiful heart...and your wonderful smile and laughter! God has blessed so many of us with, and by your life...I truly thank Him for the years He gave all of us at Riddell with you! They were always a joy! I will keep your family in prayer Alar! Praying for their strength, comfort and peace. Please accept my deepest condolences Burkes family! And thank you for sharing her with us! She will never be forgotten!

Kelvin Roberts Dec 16 2020 12:00 AM

while is Gods will that our beloved cousin, mother, grandmother and friend was called by God to step through time over into eternity; we will all be sorrowful for the loss of her personality, but will rejoice that she has been granted eternal peace in a land where sorrow and trouble and sickness no longer reign. Alar will be greatly missed and loved by all who had the pleasure to know her.

To Sean Burks and her all of the Card family please know I share your loss and grief.

jerome Dec 16 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Alar Burkes

Kelly Lloyd Dec 16 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Alar Burkes

Val Rafferty Dec 15 2020 12:00 AM

The Riddell family will miss seeing Alar's smiling face everyday. I will personally treasure all the hugs that she gave me when I was in North Ridgeville. May you be comforted by your happy memories of cherished time spent together.

Allison M Boersma Dec 15 2020 12:00 AM

I would like to send our condolences to my cousin Sean and family. We are sadden of the passing of Alar. Sending our love and prayers in Jesus name. Love Jerome and Barbara and Jonathan Whitfield.

Jerome Whitfield Dec 15 2020 12:00 AM

We were inseparable for years... No decades... My heart is broken. May you Rest In Peace My Friend

Dee Dee Marrero Dec 15 2020 12:00 AM